ivylynn 2008-4-9 02:17
作文求拍 谢谢大家拉!
今天第一篇 要坚持下去啊
写的不好 有什么错的话大家都无情的说把 因为我知道是为我好
As we known everyone like the one who has a beautiful face .sometimes we judge a person only by his or her external appeatance at the first time . whether should judge a person by external appearances? I believe each person will give different responses to this question dut to their own emotion ,various experience and different character .As far as I am concerned ,I strongly don't agree with this opinion. I will demonstrate my reasons in the follow assay
if we judge the person only by her face, dressing . in that case . We will not spend more time getting to kown him ,to interact with him to play with him. so , as time is limitted we will prone to draw the quick conclusion without carefully consideration. this will be easily lead to serious misjudgment .For example, I have a opportunity to get accquainted with a handsome boy in the last summer vacation . His dressing is also pretty good that matches his cool face perfect. then as you can image I fall in love with him and date with him. At first, I thought he will have a gold-hearted as his face looks .but I have make e great mistake since his behavior really heart me .when I or his friends need his help, he always reject to lend a hand to us .In that case , he seems so selfish and indiffrient that totally contradict with his beautiful appearance. Througt that experience ,I have understand judge a person should' t just only by his appearance or the first impression. because everyone have his own trait that hide in the inside . So I will make friends after the communication with him not just only depend on superficial judgment which is made by external appearances .
Further more, , if we judge a person by appearance is really not fairly to him .and also do harm to build a friendship. I have a intimate friend who looks fierce and argly . but she is really kind and humrous ,.she always go to the zoo as a volunteer to do clean and take care of those lovely animals in his leisure time .although whenever I am in trouble or feel disappointed about study ,she is the first person to come to help me and say some inspiring words to cheer up me. Meanwhile, she have ability to creat a pleasant atmosphere that make us laugh when she is accompany with us .so her humurious and her kindness represent that her face means nothing.
We could not judge her by her not so pretty face .I believe all of her friends love her because of her internal trait and excellent quality not just so called external appearance ]
To sum up , the most important way to judge person is to interact with he or she for a long time .
Because the out appearance not represent the truly characteristic of the person. Therefor,judge a person by external appearance seem not so exactly due to it is easily lead to misjudgment .